My father appeared in the dream of mine just this morning. Actually he had passed away 12 years ago. When I wake up, I wondered if the reason he came into my dream was now in the period of "Bon".
In the dream, he left immediately from the room
after talking with me briefly. I said to him
"See you later, take care.", noticing obviously in my mind that he passed away.
My father was very strict to me, however he gave very deep affection to me.(The watch on the picture was a present given by my father when I was enrolled at the junior high school.)
The one of his words in my memory is,
"The most important thing was not myself as well as my parents, brothers and sisters. It is
Only after I had become a father, I felt most grateful to my parents for having continued caring for me and realized the real meaning of this sentence.
I never intend to become an overprotective father, but I am going to keep an eye on my son firmly until he reaches manhood and starts to live away from us. I will also commit to contribute to society where my son and his generation live in to improve it to the best of my poor ability.